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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for California on
Q: Can my children's father keep them after refusing to follow our signed return agreement?

I left my children's father due to his alcohol and substance abuse problems in February 2024. We were never married, and he is not on their birth certificates. Last summer, I let them visit him, and he tried to keep them but eventually returned them. This summer, we signed a mutual agreement... View More

Joanne Marie Biernacki
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answered on Jul 13, 2025

Given that he has refused to return the children and is attempting to enroll them in school out of state—which may be considered parental abduction—you should act quickly. Here are the key steps you should consider:

File an Emergency Ex Parte Custody Order: In your local family court,...
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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for California on
Q: Can my children's father keep them after refusing to follow our signed return agreement?

I left my children's father due to his alcohol and substance abuse problems in February 2024. We were never married, and he is not on their birth certificates. Last summer, I let them visit him, and he tried to keep them but eventually returned them. This summer, we signed a mutual agreement... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jul 13, 2025

Your agreement is meaningless and unenforceable without a court order. You can use it as evidence of the parties' intent when you file your parentage case. This is what I would recommend - file a parentage action and concurrently file a Request for Order to get custody orders. Given that... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: How can I pursue full custody of my child in California due to safety concerns?

I am seeking guidance on pursuing full custody of my child. Currently, there are no existing custody arrangements or court orders in place. I believe my child would be safer with me because the father, who is 20 years old, possesses a firearm that is not registered and carries it around, including... View More

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Jul 11, 2025

You should already have full custody if you are the mother and there are no custody orders. Although, obtaining court orders as to visitation and support would likely be in your and the child's best interest. My best to you Rob Kane California Family Law Attorney.... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: How can I pursue full custody of my child in California due to safety concerns?

I am seeking guidance on pursuing full custody of my child. Currently, there are no existing custody arrangements or court orders in place. I believe my child would be safer with me because the father, who is 20 years old, possesses a firearm that is not registered and carries it around, including... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jul 11, 2025

You have no court orders. Get court orders. File a parentage action (I'm assuming you are not married to the father) and concurrently file a "Request for Order" to get temporary custody and support orders in place while the matter is pending. To ensure you draft the paperwork... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for New York on
Q: Can a grandparent sue for guardianship after caring for granddaughter for 3 years without parental support?

I'm a grandparent who cared for my granddaughter for 3 years, with no support from her parents. They recently went through a contested divorce where her father was granted residential custody, even though she lived with me 90% of the time after my daughter, a recovering addict, left her with... View More

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answered on Jul 9, 2025

I understand how upsetting it can be to feel cut off from a grandchild you have helped raise, especially after stepping in when others were unable or unwilling to provide care. Your question raises important issues about guardianship and the rights of non-parents in New York.

In New York, a...
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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: What steps can I take to finalize my divorce case in California after discovering it's still open?

I have an open divorce case that I believed was finalized 5 years ago. Documents have been filed by both parties, including a response to dissolution, and everything relating to child custody and assets has been settled. My attorney has passed away, and I recently discovered the divorce was not... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jul 9, 2025

Retain an attorney to assist you with this. You need to figure out what has already been done and what needs to be done. A "decree" is a judgment. The judgment package includes several different documents including the stipulated agreement you reached with your spouse. This may also... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Georgia on
Q: What can I do about issues with joint custody and lack of communication with my kids?

My children, ages 15 and 13, are under a joint custody agreement. Despite there being no recent changes to this agreement, they are not speaking with me, and their mother, who relocated to Alaska for a job in 2023, is not facilitating communication or visitation. Our agreement specifies visitation... View More

Rebecca Lynn Smith
Rebecca Lynn Smith
answered on Jul 9, 2025

You have the option of filing for Contempt of the current Court Order and can also file a Modification if changes to visitation or custody are needed. In Georgia, there must be a substantial change in circumstance. I would argue that the mother and the children relocating to Alaska would be a... View More

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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Texas on
Q: How to file for sole legal conservatorship with open police and CPS cases?

I'm seeking advice on filing a motion for sole legal conservatorship in a family law case. I do not currently have legal representation. There is an open police report and CPS report against the father of my child, which I believe supports my case for sole conservatorship. The situation is... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Jul 8, 2025

A contested custody case is not a do-it-yourself project. A non-lawyer with some legal knowledge and experience can handle their own family law litigation if it is relatively simple, straightforward, and uncontested.

I often compare the practice of law to automotive service. Many people...
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3 Answers | Asked in Family Law and Child Custody for Texas on
Q: How to file for sole legal conservatorship with open police and CPS cases?

I'm seeking advice on filing a motion for sole legal conservatorship in a family law case. I do not currently have legal representation. There is an open police report and CPS report against the father of my child, which I believe supports my case for sole conservatorship. The situation is... View More

John Herbig
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answered on Jul 9, 2025

While you can technically file a Petition to Modify yourself, which would be the first thing done in a suit seeking Sole Managing Conservatorship, based on the facts you stated and the stakes if you get something wrong, you probably should contact an attorney and have them do this type of case for... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for New York on
Q: Do I need to share evidence with my ex's lawyer in a child custody case?

I am involved in a child custody case against my child's father. I have text messages where he has harassed me and made negative comments. His lawyer has sent papers requesting that I share any evidence I have. Given that I do not have a lawyer, do I need to provide his attorney with these... View More

David Ivan Bliven
David Ivan Bliven
answered on Jul 8, 2025

Text messages are a form of evidence which could potentially be entered into evidence at trial. I do not recommend merely "brining them to court." Instead, I recommend communicating with opposing counsel stating you have no issue sharing such evidence - with the proviso it's... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for New York on
Q: Do I need to share evidence with my ex's lawyer in a child custody case?

I am involved in a child custody case against my child's father. I have text messages where he has harassed me and made negative comments. His lawyer has sent papers requesting that I share any evidence I have. Given that I do not have a lawyer, do I need to provide his attorney with these... View More

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answered on Jul 10, 2025

I'm sorry you're navigating this custody case without legal representation. Handling legal requests from an opposing attorney can feel intimidating, especially when you're trying to protect yourself and your child.

In New York custody cases, both parties are generally...
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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I modify custody from 50/50 to full due to father's inconsistency and verbal abuse?

I have a court order for 50/50 custody established when my daughter was a year old. She is turning 12 this month, and her father hasn’t consistently been part of her life, only seeing her about once a month for the past ten years. Recently, he has become verbally abusive and demands visits on... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Jul 8, 2025

As long as she is under the age of 18, you can always return to court to request modifications to your custody and child support orders. The post judgment standard is "significant change in circumstances". In your situation, you had a 50/50 order that the other parent has... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Gov & Administrative Law and Family Law for New York on
Q: How can I find out if my daughter has an active protection order in New York?

I am the father of my daughter and have physical custody of her. I am trying to find out if my daughter still has an active protection order against her mom’s boyfriend. I am not a listed party on the protection order, but I have evidence that he has been around my daughter. I want to know how I... View More

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answered on Jul 7, 2025

It is completely understandable that you want to ensure your daughter's safety and confirm whether there is an active protection order in place. As a parent with physical custody, it can be frustrating to be told you cannot access information that may directly impact your child's... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Georgia on
Q: Can I seek a change in custody for my autistic son due to current living and schooling conditions?

I am seeking advice on obtaining primary custody of my 8-year-old son, who is level one autistic and has ADHD. We divorced in 2023, and the father currently has legal custody and is the primary physical custodian. Recently, his father quit his job, moved his girlfriend and her two children into a... View More

Alake Colwell Furlow
Alake Colwell Furlow
answered on Jul 8, 2025

You should speak directly with a local attorney and express your concerns in detail. There must be a material change in circumstances for the court to consider a modification of custody. And you would have to determine if the facts of your case qualify as material changes. An attorney can draft... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence and Family Law for New York on
Q: How can I obtain sole custody and request supervised visitation due to safety concerns with my child's mother in New York?

I currently have physical custody and joint legal custody of my child. I want to seek sole custody and request supervised visitation for my child's mother. Previously, my child's mother had her children removed due to drug issues, and she currently only has supervised visitation with her... View More

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answered on Jul 7, 2025

I'm sorry you are dealing with a situation that puts your child's safety and well-being at risk. When a parent believes that the other parent is exposing the child to harm, New York law provides a way to seek court intervention and request changes to custody and visitation arrangements.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Military Law and Family Law for Georgia on
Q: Can my military status affect child custody in Georgia?

I am active duty military in Georgia and considering divorce. My wife insists that because I might be deployed, the courts will grant her full custody of our children, leaving me with only visitation rights. We currently do not have any custody arrangements, and she does not want to share custody... View More

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answered on Jul 3, 2025

There is no rule that says someone's military status means the other person automatically gets custody. There are multiple factors that the court considers in awarding custody.

Ocga 19-9-3

(3) In determining the best interests of the child, the judge may consider any relevant...
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3 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Georgia on
Q: Am I required to allow summer visits if the father doesn't adhere to schedule?

I have a court order with the father of my twins that alternates custody weeks during the summer. However, he only takes them from Saturday to Sunday, citing work obligations. This has been the arrangement for 7 years. I'm the primary source of income for the twins and work full-time. I love... View More

Alake Colwell Furlow
Alake Colwell Furlow
answered on Jul 8, 2025

All parties are required to follow the current order, until such time as a new order modifies it. So yes, no matter what the children say, the father should have whatever time the court has given him, even if it is shorter than the periods he is given. If you stop allowing visitation for any... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Florida on
Q: Am I obligated to share vacation details of my child with my ex-wife?

I have a temporary full-time parenting agreement with my ex-wife since she resides in another state, except for summer travel when my daughter visits her. The agreement states we should be "reasonably informed" about our child's whereabouts, but we typically only share general... View More

Pamela J. Fero
Pamela J. Fero
answered on Jul 2, 2025

You are only obligated to share as much information about your child's vacation as your parenting plan requires. If your plan specifies you must be “reasonably informed” of whereabouts, the general practice, like sharing dates, location, and contact info, is sufficient, unless your... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for Tennessee on
Q: How to change my daughter's last name to mine in Tennessee with sole custody?

I have full sole custody of my daughter through a court order in Nevada, and recently changed my name in Tennessee. The mother is not around, and I'm uncertain about her feelings regarding the name change. How can I change my daughter's last name to match mine?

Michael R. Stooksbury
Michael R. Stooksbury
answered on Jul 1, 2025

Changing a child’s name involves filing a Petition for Name Change in the Chancery Court. Unless parental rights have been terminated, it is usually best practice to involve the other parent in a name change. At the very least, you will need to notify the other parent of the petition and the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Support, Child Custody, Family Law and Employment Law for Texas on
Q: My son faces legal actions for increased child support and visitation rights termination. He earns $11/hr part-time and struggles financially. His ex-wife cites the child's autism. What are his legal options and how can he get representation?

My son, who earns $11/hr working part-time for an events company and has a mental health diagnosis, has been served with papers by his ex-wife’s lawyer. The legal actions against him include requests for increased child support, extending support beyond age 18 due to alleged... View More

John Michael Frick
John Michael Frick
answered on Jul 1, 2025

Under the facts described, it seems likely that he will need financial assistance from family and/or friends to retain a lawyer with sufficient experience and skill who practices in the area of family law in or near the county of suit. While he may well qualify financially for legal assistance... View More

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